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I'm wondering what kind of friend do you all prefer,
here it goes.

A friend who hang around with you almost all the time, crack stupid jokes and also involved in a girl girl kind of glossip most of the time. && when he/she 's in touble you always helped him/her but he/she nevers thought of how you used to help him/her. But when you and him/her is in a quarrel he/she 'll never thought of how good you used to treat him/her and give in because of that but instead you're the one who's always giving in. When he/she 's not in a good mood due to several reasons like PMS/BGR he/she 'll put it out on you, and you'll have to tolerate those ridiculous stuffs. & especially when he/she organises an event like bbq/chalets/outings, he/she invited all him/her friends (those that's not very close to him/her) but not you who is so good with him/her. He/she is the kind that will side his/her stead whenever you're in a conflict with his/her stead, no matter what even though you're not the one at fault. He/she is the kind that will spent almost or should I say all of his/her time on their stead and not having a single time with you, one on one or with grounds of friends. Outings with he/her must always include his/her stead, if not he/she will not turn up. He/she will only find or call you up only when he/she is having a quarrel with his/her stead.

OR

A friend who used to be very close to you but due to some issues, but not due to a quarrel, both of you somehow drifted, not as close compare to before. BUT, he/she always treated you like a good friend just like before but only due to lack of interactions, you two have lesser topics in common. But when you invited him/her out or to some events he/she will definitely turn up unless he/she had something on, on that day. He/she nevers forget what both of you had done together like for instants used to hang out in arcades or slack together under the block, he/she never forget those things that happened. & both of you were never in a quarrel as you both know when to give in and when not to. He/she 'll occasionally asked you out after not hanging out together for a long time. He/she is the kind that will spent equal amount of time or can say slightly more time with his/her stead than you, (but better than nothing). He/she 'll never side his/her stead all the time when it comes to conflict between the two of you but instead judge who's right or wrong before making a stand.

So, what kind of friends will you all prefer?
The first or the second one?